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Mimi and I had a heartening experience and stayed
twice as long as we'd intended. BA teared up many times, usually when
reminiscing about the people who sent cards we read to her. By the way,
Mimi jotted down the names and addresses of every card and package we
could find. Also noted is a list of calls she received. This log is in a
kelly green notebook left open with a pen on top of her bureau.
A package we opened was filled with beautiful
notecards from an artist friend. As we looked around we found others,
some sent by BA's sister, also an artist. We put them all in one box
and placed them on the bureau as well, with a sign "CARDS TO BE SENT
(BLANK)". BA wonders if visitors could act as scibes to help send a few
at a time using the addresses in the green notebook.
I asked BA if she might like to pin some of these
little masterpieces on her walls and she said she would. Might someone
ask the staff if this would be allowed, and if so, arrive with push
pins?
BA wanted to share some of her mouthwatering
chocolate with us, but also intimated how much she would appreciate a
little box or two of Wild Planet Sardines that can be purchased at
Costco. We thought that was interesting!
Oh, BA would like everyone to know her cell phone
password because she is no longer able to retrieve calls herself
and needs help.
As we know, BA is affected
greatly by sounds that don't seem that loud to us, but rattle her head.
Her room is adjacent to the kitchen so she hears sounds of meal
preparation and clean up at least three times a day. I learned from
Manny, a staff member she is very fond of, that her room location was
chosen because: a) it is the only room that has an private bathroom and
b) with her door open the staff can hear her easily if she calls out to
them. Upon her request, the staff no longer listen to television or
radio in the kitchen. They really are trying to be responsive to her
needs.
Mimi and I hope this information will be helpful.
We will visit again soon. Oh, I just remembered something else - Manny
said visitors can stay as late as 10:00pm!
Yours,
Barb
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